As many of you know, I'm often called in to help as animals approach the end of their lives. It's always a very sad time, but one that I feel honoured to be able to help with. To be able to help both people and their animal companions to say their goodbyes, share their gratitude for each other, and ultimately give permission to go is very precious.
One of the difficulties that people face after their pets have left them is the grieving process. It's almost as though society in general doesn't appreciate the value of this lifelong companionship, and the way that our animals are as much family as our human relatives. How many people have claimed compassionate leave at work after the passing of a loved and cherished pet? Not many, I'll be willing to bet, but when you think about it, why not?
Our animals bring us so much, and our bond is so strong. This deserves to be acknowledged. Think about all the wisdom your animals have, how they've helped you in tough times, how they're always there for you, and are ever constant and unconditional. To be honest, this is more than you get from most people!! So, being able to grieve fully for an animal is no different to a partner, family member or close friend.
I read a lovely book recently - Chicken Soup for the Cat Lover's Soul. It was recommended to me by a lady I helped when her elderly cat passed on. There's also a dog version, along similar lines. Full of heart warming, amazing, fun and sometimes very sad stories about our animal companions and the amazing relationship we have with each other.
Anyway, I was prompted to return to this subject again (and will doubtless return to from time to time) by an article I saw today on the BBC Magazine website. Do have a read, and if you feel inclined, leave a comment on the website. It's an important issue....... Here's the link.
One of the difficulties that people face after their pets have left them is the grieving process. It's almost as though society in general doesn't appreciate the value of this lifelong companionship, and the way that our animals are as much family as our human relatives. How many people have claimed compassionate leave at work after the passing of a loved and cherished pet? Not many, I'll be willing to bet, but when you think about it, why not?
Our animals bring us so much, and our bond is so strong. This deserves to be acknowledged. Think about all the wisdom your animals have, how they've helped you in tough times, how they're always there for you, and are ever constant and unconditional. To be honest, this is more than you get from most people!! So, being able to grieve fully for an animal is no different to a partner, family member or close friend.
I read a lovely book recently - Chicken Soup for the Cat Lover's Soul. It was recommended to me by a lady I helped when her elderly cat passed on. There's also a dog version, along similar lines. Full of heart warming, amazing, fun and sometimes very sad stories about our animal companions and the amazing relationship we have with each other.
Anyway, I was prompted to return to this subject again (and will doubtless return to from time to time) by an article I saw today on the BBC Magazine website. Do have a read, and if you feel inclined, leave a comment on the website. It's an important issue....... Here's the link.
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